"The key to change is to let go of fear"
Roseanne Cash
However true you believe those words to be, embracing them and living them can be difficult.
Allowing change into our lives means letting in the unknown - and whether we are in a place of unhappiness or in a velvet-lined rut, the unknown often feels a more difficult choice to make.
The positive and negative of change
Change creates a myriad of emotions, from excitement and expectation to doubt and fear. It can generate positive energy and give you a new lease of life, or it can paralyse you with fear and prevent you from moving forward.
Let change happen with you, not to you
These feelings come from your response to the change - and by understanding how to adapt your response, you can alter the outcome. I work with clients to coach them through periods of change and help them to create and follow their own path.
When Change Happens
There are many situations which bring change into our lives - some are unexpected, others are part and parcel of life.
Whatever the cause, coaching can help you to take control and manage the change.
Take a look below at some of the most common causes of change that I can help with:
FAMILY
Trying to fulfil the differing needs of family members
Trying to fulfil the differing needs of family members with your own needs can create an imbalance in your life. Coaching will help you to address the issue and find that important balance.
HOME
Your home should be a place of peace and security. When external factors such as health, family or work impact on your enjoyment of your personal sanctuary, it has wider consequences which coaching will help you to manage.
Your home should be a place of peace and security.
RELATIONSHIPS
Whatever the nature of the relationship and whoever it is with, coaching can help you to deal with any issues and improve that relationship. I offer general relationship coaching, but not marriage guidance.
Whatever the nature of the relationship and whoever it is with,
STAGE OR AGE
At retirement you have more time, but may feel as though you have less purpose. Or are you at the stage where children and elderly parents need your attention, so your own needs, wishes, desires and dreams have been forgotten?
Certain events and periods in our lives bring unexpected challenges.
PROMOTION
An unfamiliar role, new responsibilities and increased expectations can be daunting. Coaching can give you the tools to manage your new position and embrace the challenges.
An unfamiliar role, new responsibilities and increased expectations
RELOCATION
A new home, unfamiliar surroundings, absence of old friends...
and an unknown community can make relocation an unsettling experience. With the right strategies available to you, this can be minimised and the move can be a welcome change rather than an unwanted challenge.
REDUNDANCY
The loss of a job through redundancy can make you feel...
uncertain, disempowered and scared. Coaching enables you to address the negatives and discover the positives of your new situation.
RETIREMENT
Your working life will have given you a daily structure, a social...
challenge and direction. So what happens when you retire? The lack of structure in retirement may be disconcerting at first, but coaching can help you to find purpose and fun in this new life stage.
A new home, unfamiliar surroundings, absence of old friends and an unknown community can make relocation an unsettling experience. With the right strategies available to you, this can be minimised and the move can be a welcome change rather than an unwanted challenge.
Your working life will have given you a daily structure, a social challenge and direction. So what happens when you retire? The lack of structure in retirement may be disconcerting at first, but coaching can help you to find purpose and fun in this new life stage.
The loss of a job through redundancy can make you feel uncertain, disempowered and scared. Coaching enables you to address the negatives and discover the positives of your new situation.
"Change what you see by changing how you see"
“ In a time where I had high levels of stress and anxiety, Diane was able to guide my thoughts towards how best I meet the challenges I faced head on (and) helped me to develop my skills and experience to deal with challenging situations…”
What People Say
Contact Diane
I have offices on the Rutland/Northamptonshire border, easily accessible by car from Oakham (12 miles), Stamford (13 miles) and Leicester (25 miles) and also in London, N4, just 5 minutes walk from Finsbury Park tube station.
Contact me if you have any questions about the process or price, or if would like to talk to me before booking any coaching sessions.
Tel: 07714 235206
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